Thread drift light on here.
When your paying for and getting training you have to search out good instructors you can connect with.
When I was getting my initial Cezzna training in Broomfield Colorado { Jeffco } in 1983 I had a instructor that was extremely nervous and didn't have a good feel for the airplane, I had been flying airplanes like a Cezzna T210 and V Tail Beechcraft Bonanza since I was about 13, so I kinda had a good feel for how things were suppose to go.
I don't know how that guy ever got his CFI rating. He seems to be scared to me!
That said I've been very fortunate to have had some really excellent instructors through out my career, not all were CFI rated.