In article ,
This is going to sound a bit loopy.
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But she also doesn't want to outlive a viable life to become an
invalid (both my parents became invalids. She and I both spent a lot
of time caring for them and her mother has advanced Parkinsons) and
for that reason wants to be with me when we crash/burn/die...

That's a beautiful thing Actually I would love to find a women/wife
like that. Congrads and good luck with your experimental.