Dave Jacobowitz wrote:

I'm using rec.aviation.piloting to try to find a
flying partner. I feel like I'm misusing this
group...

I don't think it a misuse. I've met a number of people through this group,
and at least one has become a permanent friend (as opposed to someone that
I've met at an airport once or twice).

Some USENET reader might also be able to point you at a local organization
or club that you might want to join. For those in the NY/NJ/PA area, for
example, there's:

http://www.midatlanticpilots.com/

We've monthly gatherings, fly-outs, and a general fun time.

You might also post a note about seeking a safetly pilot on a bulletin board
(if there is one) at your FBO.

- Andrew