I totally agree. You hit the nail on the head.

Take Dudley Henriques for example. He is a little (probably in more
ways than one) hothead in the newsgroups. Yet when I called him to the
table, he withdrew.

It has been my general experience that the hotheads are insecure, and
the calm ones are very secure. Reason being? Simple -- the insecure are
hotheads because they think it proves their machoness or something. The
calm ones have nothing to prove.

Thanks for bringing this to the surface. Good post!

Lynne