in article 8fsFb.173873$_M.793161@attbi_s54, Cindy at
wrote on 12/22/03 11:00 AM:

To American people, everyone who criticizes Americans is racists. They
have to be so very sensitive with other races and ethnic groups.
That's how they were taught, and anything else is considered "bigotry"
or "racism", and it's a taboo behavior. Don't forget the well known
terminology, "discrimination". You'll be sued for this. Then, they try
to enforce their racial rules to other nations such as Japan. They are
so confident because they believe that Americans have the most correct
way of thinking in the world. However, there is a curriculum in
schools, job training, leadership school, and so on to warn the trainees
to be aware of -- "Ethnocentrism is not what Americans want". So, there
seems to be a little hope. Some Americans will be timely updated, but
some Americans will remain ethnocentric.

What caused all this bitterness against Americans? Your American husband
dump you? (You did state previously you married an American)