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I posted this on another forum, but figured that some of you could
probably relate to what I'm going through. Dave ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Over the past year or so I've gotten into numerous discussions with friends about finding our passion in life. Most discussions have centered around our careers and the consensus is that few of us are fortunate enough to have careers that we are passionate about. Those who do get to do what they enjoy everyday and make a decent amount of money doing it are truly fortunate. And many of use talk a good game and say that we would be willing to give up jobs that pay a great salary but that we don't particularly care for in order to pursue our passions, whether it be teaching, flying, etc. But at the end of the day very few of us are willing to actually part with our way of life to pursue something that we are passionate about yet would afford us a less comfortable lifestyle. I myself am guilty of that in that if money were not an issue I would probably go back for an engineering doctorate and teach. Maybe one day I will. For others, the jobs that we force ourselves to go to everyday simply provides the resources to follow our other passions. And if that's the case then maybe it's worth the sacrifice. You may wonder how this ties in to the subject of this post. Well, my love of aviation goes back for many years and I've known that I've wanted to fly for almost as long. This is particularly interesting since I didn't fly for the first time until my freshman year of undergraduate. One day while having one of these discussions a friend asked when my love of flying came about. I could only say that I've had it for years, but couldn't quite but a finger on the details. Then one day recently I heard "Wild Blue Yonder", or at least I think that's the Air Force anthem. Suddenly I was taken back to my memories growing up building model airplanes, RC planes, and model rockets. Just hearing that song brought back memories I had long forgotten, but that certainly shaped my love of flying. After I received my PPL I figured that maybe my desire to hang around at airports would diminish. But I still find myself looking up and getting excited whenever a plane flies overhead, I'll take the long way home from work just so that I can drive past Teterboro or any other airport. And on nice days when traffic is departing from Rwys 24 and 19, I'll pull up next to the fence and watch the Lears, Falcons, Gulfstreams, Citations, and all the rest take off and land for hours on end. I find it to be therapeutic. I still relish going down to the Flying W airport, where I learned to fly, on a beautiful spring or fall day and sitting on the grass watching other people fly. A great deal of my reading involves flying in some form and the amount of time I spend thinking about it daily sometime leads me to think that maybe I'm addicted. To me it's the perfect combination of science and fun. Don't get me wrong, I have other interests. I enjoy studying history and science, traveling, spending time with family and friends, and have just fulfilled another lifelong goal by starting fencing lessons. I have learned to scuba dive, plus I have a list of other goals I hope to achieve very soon. But at the end of the day I can't escape this flight addiction. I started at 29 and certainly wish I had started about 10 years earlier. But I also think I have an appreciation for it now that I probably wouldn't have had back then. I'm certainly not the best pilot in the world, certainly no better than average in my estimate despite any compliments I may have received in the past. So given that and that I'm almost 32, it's unlikely that I will ever fly professionally. Part of it comes back to giving up so much in order to do so, and I certainly admire those that have done it. But maybe I'll go for the CFI/II and instruct part-time. I've always had a gift for teaching and maybe this is the perfect combination of what I enjoy and what I'm good at. I didn't mean to go into a long rant. I just wanted to see whether others out there find themselves ensnared by this hobby to the extent they wonder about their sanity. I had a dinner with a friend yesterday and I told her that I was considering tallying up all the money I had spend on flying to date. She told me not to, and asked if it really mattered how much I 'd spent? It was something I did for myself and it was something that made me very happy so how could I place a price on that? She told me that so few people ever find anything that they're passionate about, and even fewer have an opportunity to make it a reality. I don't think I'm alone given what I know about others on this board, but sometimes we need a sanity check. Dave |
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David B. Cole wrote:
[...] I myself am guilty of that in that if money were not an issue I would probably go back for an engineering doctorate and teach. Heh. Engineering? No wonder I like you. [...] I still relish going down to the Flying W airport, where I learned to fly, on a beautiful spring or fall day and sitting on the grass watching other people fly. This is an area where I stint. I reason that, as little time I have around airplanes, I should fly with as much of that time as possible. Perhaps that's an error. [...] To me it's the perfect combination of science and fun. Absolutely. Instrument flying also appeals to the same persnickety nature that works for me in software engineering. [...] So given that and that I'm almost 32, it's unlikely that I will ever fly professionally. Part of it comes back to giving up so much in order to do so, and I certainly admire those that have done it. But maybe I'll go for the CFI/II and instruct part-time. I've always had a gift for teaching and maybe this is the perfect combination of what I enjoy and what I'm good at. You could always teach engineering at a school which specializes in (or has a good program for) aviation. Add a CFII to that, and... I didn't mean to go into a long rant. I just wanted to see whether others out there find themselves ensnared by this hobby to the extent they wonder about their sanity. I had a dinner with a friend yesterday and I told her that I was considering tallying up all the money I had spend on flying to date. She told me not to, and asked if it really mattered how much I 'd spent? It was something I did for myself and it was something that made me very happy so how could I place a price on that? She told me that so few people ever find anything that they're passionate about, and even fewer have an opportunity to make it a reality. I don't think I'm alone given what I know about others on this board, but sometimes we need a sanity check. I've never computed that total, but I can get pretty close just in my head. It's no trivial number. When I think what that money could have done for my business, or my family, I do feel a little ill. Who am I to waste so much on a "mere hobby"? But life isn't something to be survived. We won't do that anyway, so it's a poor goal in the long term. Instead, we should be doing the things that make our hearts beat quicker, that take our breath away, and that warm our souls. I've several passions in my life. Flying is one. I could live without it, but it would mean less living. Is this normal? I'd say "no". Most people give up on their passions as a part of the process they mistake for maturing. We're taught to "get by", "do the job we're given", or "fit in". But passion isn't about any of these things. One cannot discover passion by "getting by". Passion is discovered by investing one's self completely in the "job we're given", and then discovering where that takes us or what that does to us. If we bring passion to everything we do, we're free to find that about which we're passionate. But "getting by" leaves no room for the discovery of passion. What might have excited us is never given the chance, even if we do stumble across it. Passion is also contagious. If nothing else, I owe it to my son to fan the flames of my passions, that he can catch his own (which had damned well better include aviation {8^). - Andrew |
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This is an interesting post, and I believe can be addressed from several
directions. I've been directly involved in aviation all my life as a professional. I've learned much from the experience. One of the prime things I've learned and have passed on to others coming up is that flying, especially weather intensive flying, requires you look at the issue of your "passion" for it VERY carefully. Flying is in that class of unique endeavors in life that require more than a passion for the doing of it to survive. When you first look at it this way, it sets many pilots back a bit on their haunches for a closer look. What it amounts to really is that it's wonderful to have all this passion for something you do in life, and it's even better if you can make a very good living from doing it as I and many others have done, but you never want to lose sight of that "extra thing out there" than can hurt you; that being the requirement to constantly maintain the degree of proficiency required at the level from which you are enjoying all this "passion" :-) In my case, I loved flying as much as anything I did in my life, but as a professional doing it, especially at the level of danger I was doing it, I reached a point in my career where the enjoyment had to take a back seat to the unending proficiency requirements at my level of involvement. I guess what I'm actually saying here is that a passion for flying is fine, and by all means enjoy the experience. God knows I did. But never forget that the REAL bottom line for all that enjoyment is the price you must be willing to pay to maintain your ability to enjoy the experience over a protracted period of time; that period lasting until you park the airplane for the last time in your career. All the best, and enjoy the experience, Dudley Henriques International Fighter Pilots Fellowship Commercial Pilot/ CFI Retired For personal email, please replace the z's with e's. dhenriquesATzarthlinkDOTnzt "David B. Cole" wrote in message m... I posted this on another forum, but figured that some of you could probably relate to what I'm going through. Dave -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ----- Over the past year or so I've gotten into numerous discussions with friends about finding our passion in life. Most discussions have centered around our careers and the consensus is that few of us are fortunate enough to have careers that we are passionate about. Those who do get to do what they enjoy everyday and make a decent amount of money doing it are truly fortunate. And many of use talk a good game and say that we would be willing to give up jobs that pay a great salary but that we don't particularly care for in order to pursue our passions, whether it be teaching, flying, etc. But at the end of the day very few of us are willing to actually part with our way of life to pursue something that we are passionate about yet would afford us a less comfortable lifestyle. I myself am guilty of that in that if money were not an issue I would probably go back for an engineering doctorate and teach. Maybe one day I will. For others, the jobs that we force ourselves to go to everyday simply provides the resources to follow our other passions. And if that's the case then maybe it's worth the sacrifice. You may wonder how this ties in to the subject of this post. Well, my love of aviation goes back for many years and I've known that I've wanted to fly for almost as long. This is particularly interesting since I didn't fly for the first time until my freshman year of undergraduate. One day while having one of these discussions a friend asked when my love of flying came about. I could only say that I've had it for years, but couldn't quite but a finger on the details. Then one day recently I heard "Wild Blue Yonder", or at least I think that's the Air Force anthem. Suddenly I was taken back to my memories growing up building model airplanes, RC planes, and model rockets. Just hearing that song brought back memories I had long forgotten, but that certainly shaped my love of flying. After I received my PPL I figured that maybe my desire to hang around at airports would diminish. But I still find myself looking up and getting excited whenever a plane flies overhead, I'll take the long way home from work just so that I can drive past Teterboro or any other airport. And on nice days when traffic is departing from Rwys 24 and 19, I'll pull up next to the fence and watch the Lears, Falcons, Gulfstreams, Citations, and all the rest take off and land for hours on end. I find it to be therapeutic. I still relish going down to the Flying W airport, where I learned to fly, on a beautiful spring or fall day and sitting on the grass watching other people fly. A great deal of my reading involves flying in some form and the amount of time I spend thinking about it daily sometime leads me to think that maybe I'm addicted. To me it's the perfect combination of science and fun. Don't get me wrong, I have other interests. I enjoy studying history and science, traveling, spending time with family and friends, and have just fulfilled another lifelong goal by starting fencing lessons. I have learned to scuba dive, plus I have a list of other goals I hope to achieve very soon. But at the end of the day I can't escape this flight addiction. I started at 29 and certainly wish I had started about 10 years earlier. But I also think I have an appreciation for it now that I probably wouldn't have had back then. I'm certainly not the best pilot in the world, certainly no better than average in my estimate despite any compliments I may have received in the past. So given that and that I'm almost 32, it's unlikely that I will ever fly professionally. Part of it comes back to giving up so much in order to do so, and I certainly admire those that have done it. But maybe I'll go for the CFI/II and instruct part-time. I've always had a gift for teaching and maybe this is the perfect combination of what I enjoy and what I'm good at. I didn't mean to go into a long rant. I just wanted to see whether others out there find themselves ensnared by this hobby to the extent they wonder about their sanity. I had a dinner with a friend yesterday and I told her that I was considering tallying up all the money I had spend on flying to date. She told me not to, and asked if it really mattered how much I 'd spent? It was something I did for myself and it was something that made me very happy so how could I place a price on that? She told me that so few people ever find anything that they're passionate about, and even fewer have an opportunity to make it a reality. I don't think I'm alone given what I know about others on this board, but sometimes we need a sanity check. Dave |
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On Tue, 09 Mar 2004 18:35:04 GMT,
(Corky Scott) wrote: On 8 Mar 2004 10:36:06 -0800, (David B. Cole) wrote: I don't think I'm alone given what I know about others on this board, but sometimes we need a sanity check. Dave Heh heh, my wife, who is a teacher, once told me about a woman she met when she was at a teaching conference upstate. She and a few other women stepped outside to sit on the steps during lunch because it was a spectacular day. Brilliant blue sky, balmy breezes, just a day to remember. It was shortly made more memorable when a woman none no one knew walked over, sat down with the group and began chattering. She probably was a custodian for the school, but whatever she was, it was quickly obvious she was one sandwiche short of a picnic. My wife told me she just chattered on aimlessly as if they were all good friends... until an airplane popped over the horizon. Suddenly she shut up and stared intently at the airplane as it droned slowly overhead. Her eyes and head tracked it from horizon to horizon with her head tilted back, mouth agape, like a human radar set. A few seconds after the airplane disappeared over the far horizon, the woman burst into chatter again, endlessly mentioning the airplane and going on and on and on about it, before drifting off to another topic, eventually. From that day on, whenever an airplane flew overhead and I looked up to see what it was, I'd drop my eyes back down to find my wife contemplating me with a smirk on her face. And if the engine noise is REALLY unusual, requiring a dash outside to see a B-17 passing by (ok this only happened once, it was the Collings B-17), or my friend's Waco which has a 275 hp Jacobs with a constant speed prop, which sounds positively melodic, she may guffaw outloud asking me if I managed to spot the "airyplane". :-) "special sound?" After all these years I still run outside to look at 150s. It might be someone I know. If not, I still run out to watch airplanes. Roger Halstead (K8RI & ARRL life member) (N833R, S# CD-2 Worlds oldest Debonair) www.rogerhalstead.com Corky Scott |
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![]() "Roger Halstead" wrote in message "special sound?" After all these years I still run outside to look at 150s. It might be someone I know. If not, I still run out to watch airplanes. Roger Halstead I live right under the extended cnter line of a local private field. On a weekend with seve clear, I would not get anything done, if I looked at every one going overhead. On the other hand, there is a T-28 that lives there, and when he goes over, I almost always run out to see him! -- Jim in NC --- Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). Version: 6.0.608 / Virus Database: 388 - Release Date: 3/3/2004 |
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(David B. Cole) wrote in message om...
Don't get me wrong, I have other interests. I enjoy studying history and science, traveling, spending time with family and friends, and have just fulfilled another lifelong goal by starting fencing lessons. I have learned to scuba dive, plus I have a list of other goals I hope to achieve very soon. But at the end of the day I can't escape this flight addiction. I started at 29 and certainly wish I had started about 10 years earlier. But I also think I have an appreciation for it now that I probably wouldn't have had back then. It's nice to have other interests - you can fly to study history, fly to visit friends, fly to scuba dive, etc. Then it's easier to pretend that flying is useful. I've been addicted for 28 years. It's terminal. I didn't mean to go into a long rant. I just wanted to see whether others out there find themselves ensnared by this hobby to the extent they wonder about their sanity. I had a dinner with a friend yesterday and I told her that I was considering tallying up all the money I had spend on flying to date. She told me not to, and asked if it really mattered how much I 'd spent? It was something I did for myself and it was something that made me very happy so how could I place a price on that? She told me that so few people ever find anything that they're passionate about, and even fewer have an opportunity to make it a reality. I don't think I'm alone given what I know about others on this board, but sometimes we need a sanity check. She's right. Don't do it. If you fail the sanity check, there's only one cure anyway, and that is flying. -- Gene Seibel http://pad39a.com/gene/broadcast.html Because I fly, I envy no one. |
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