What is your response when...

What's your response when you tell someone you're going flying and they say
"Be careful."?

I know the comment is well intended, but I've seen some of these people
drive (and eat), and trust me, my flying is far safer than what they do to
themselves on a daily basis.

Mostly, I say "Thank you.", but from time to time, I go into a sermon about
how flying is pretty safe IF you don't do stupid things like run out of gas
or fly in conditions beyond your abilities. Then I realize I probably bored
someone or came across too strong and revert back to "Thank you".

And there are times I'm tempted to say "Naah, it would be the hilight of my
day to end up at the bottom a smoking hole in the airplane I built."

I usually just answer.. "Always... and Thank You"..

BT

"Kyle Boatright" wrote in message
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What's your response when you tell someone you're going flying and they
say "Be careful."?

I know the comment is well intended, but I've seen some of these people
drive (and eat), and trust me, my flying is far safer than what they do to
themselves on a daily basis.

Mostly, I say "Thank you.", but from time to time, I go into a sermon
about how flying is pretty safe IF you don't do stupid things like run out
of gas or fly in conditions beyond your abilities. Then I realize I
probably bored someone or came across too strong and revert back to "Thank
you".

And there are times I'm tempted to say "Naah, it would be the hilight of
my day to end up at the bottom a smoking hole in the airplane I built."

Kyle Boatright wrote:
What's your response when you tell someone you're going flying and they
say "Be careful."?

I know the comment is well intended, but I've seen some of these people
drive (and eat), and trust me, my flying is far safer than what they do
to themselves on a daily basis.

Mostly, I say "Thank you.", but from time to time, I go into a sermon
about how flying is pretty safe IF you don't do stupid things like run
out of gas or fly in conditions beyond your abilities. Then I realize I
probably bored someone or came across too strong and revert back to
"Thank you".

And there are times I'm tempted to say "Naah, it would be the hilight of
my day to end up at the bottom a smoking hole in the airplane I built."


I wouldn't see this as anything other than someone expressing a wish
that you don't get hurt, which is simply a verbal expression of caring
what happens to you.

To make something other than out of it might be to read into it your own
slant rather than what was intended by the person making the comment.
Shakespeare had it right; "Much Ado About Nothing" :-)

--
Dudley Henriques

On Sat, 5 Jan 2008 16:56:43 -0500, "Kyle Boatright"
wrote:

What's your response when you tell someone you're going flying and they say
"Be careful."?

To be perfectly honest, I've got almost a superstition about my wife saying "Be
careful" when I leave for the airport. Doesn't feel right if she's not there to
say it. I usually respond, "OK, just this once." Anyone else, I just say, "As
ever."

Ron Wanttaja

Kyle Boatright writes:

I know the comment is well intended, but I've seen some of these people
drive (and eat), and trust me, my flying is far safer than what they do to
themselves on a daily basis.

People say it for all sorts of things, not just flying. Moms in particular
are prone to say it about anything that incorporates even the tiniest
suggestion of risk.

Mostly, I say "Thank you.", but from time to time, I go into a sermon about
how flying is pretty safe IF you don't do stupid things like run out of gas
or fly in conditions beyond your abilities. Then I realize I probably bored
someone or came across too strong and revert back to "Thank you".

Or you gave them new things to worry about: "You mean there are flights beyond
your abilities??"

Mxsmanic wrote in
:

Kyle Boatright writes:

I know the comment is well intended, but I've seen some of these
people drive (and eat), and trust me, my flying is far safer than
what they do to themselves on a daily basis.

People say it for all sorts of things, not just flying.

You don't fly.

Bertie

On Sat, 5 Jan 2008 23:53:28 +0000 (UTC), Bertie the Bunyip
wrote:

Mxsmanic wrote in
:

Kyle Boatright writes:

I know the comment is well intended, but I've seen some of these
people drive (and eat), and trust me, my flying is far safer than
what they do to themselves on a daily basis.

People say it for all sorts of things, not just flying.

You don't fly.

Bertie

thanks bertie. the delegation is still current!

Stealth :-) Pilot

On Sat, 5 Jan 2008 16:56:43 -0500, "Kyle Boatright"
wrote:

What's your response when you tell someone you're going flying and they say
"Be careful."?

The dame as I expect when I tell someone headed into town, on a trip,
or the kids/grand kids going out to play. "OK", or "I'll try".

Be cqareful is not something specific to flying and it's a nautral
parting caution for almost any reason.

It hink we become far too sensitive to throughtful, parting comments.
I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt.

Roger (K8RI)



I know the comment is well intended, but I've seen some of these people
drive (and eat), and trust me, my flying is far safer than what they do to
themselves on a daily basis.

Mostly, I say "Thank you.", but from time to time, I go into a sermon about
how flying is pretty safe IF you don't do stupid things like run out of gas
or fly in conditions beyond your abilities. Then I realize I probably bored
someone or came across too strong and revert back to "Thank you".

And there are times I'm tempted to say "Naah, it would be the hilight of my
day to end up at the bottom a smoking hole in the airplane I built."

What's your response when you tell someone you're going flying and they
say "Be careful."?


I don't think it's any different than me telling my wife "Drive Carefully"
when she goes to the store.

It's simply showing someone you care about them.

Cheers:

Paul
N1431A
KPLU